how do you not have sex witha girl who is clearly interested and not make it weird. Lets say you would have sex with her under normal circumstances but you don't want to, how do you keep her around and keep that option open in case you decide you want to fuck her?

I am trying to not have sex for a minute and their is this girl who I am into and I know I could smash and it is getting to that point where she will think I am weird if I don't do something pretty quickly, I've already made out with her and I had her half naked and was just like uhhh I gotta go, so she prolly already thinks I'm gay or something but how do I pull this off?

If she keeps making open advances on me I will prolly crack and just stick it in cause she is kinda hot but I am trying this whole new approach and it is hard

how do you not have sex witha girl who is clearly interested and not make it weird. Lets say you would have sex with her under normal circumstances but you don't want to, how do you keep her around and keep that option open in case you decide you want to fuck her?

I am trying to not have sex for a minute and their is this girl who I am into and I know I could smash and it is getting to that point where she will think I am weird if I don't do something pretty quickly, I've already made out with her and I had her half naked and was just like uhhh I gotta go, so she prolly already thinks I'm gay or something but how do I pull this off?

If she keeps making open advances on me I will prolly crack and just stick it in cause she is kinda hot but I am trying this whole new approach and it is hard

All I can tell you is, just relax and let it not happen. It's worked for me.

lol what can I say tho when it is blatantly obvious that we should be having sex? tell her I'm gay? I was thinking that cause then if I ever want to bone she will be all about it, but almost anyone that meets me could tell you I'm not classy enough to be into the D

Don't trust GLDers eh? :p

If you're in this far you can't really just hang out with her, it's bound to come up or she'll assume your gay/a pussy. You either need to stall her advances via beings too busy, chasing other tail, or simply smash her (considering that's what you want to do, and what you expected and wanted to hear from us before you posted this).

Dude, say all that crap chicks have said to you when shoving you into the friend zone. If you can't think of anything go read Whorer stories.

WTF is the 'whole new approach' that doesn't involving fucking girls that you're mutually interested in anyways?

Tell her you just got circumcised so everythings a bit sore for X amount of days.

Beat it in front of her, and go soft. Maximum weird.

naw man I ain't trying to fuck. I'm just trying something differnt like see what it is like to not have sex, I tried this a lil while ago no sex, no beating off, no bjs etc to see how long it could work and it didn't work out so I'm trying it again

I dunno man I just feel like if I don't fuck girls maybe I will respect them more or something? I really don't know why i'm doing this but I figure I am in a new place and I'm gonna try and not do the same shit I was doing cause it has gone past the point of qaulifying myself, I know I can get pussy I've done that so now I'm trying to see what its like when you take that element out of a relationship and if i will still feel the same need to exploit women

naw man I ain't trying to fuck. I'm just trying something differnt like see what it is like to not have sex, I tried this a lil while ago no sex, no beating off, no bjs etc to see how long it could work and it didn't work out so I'm trying it again

I dunno man I just feel like if I don't fuck girls maybe I will respect them more or something? I really don't know why i'm doing this but I figure I am in a new place and I'm gonna try and not do the same shit I was doing cause it has gone past the point of qaulifying myself, I know I can get pussy I've done that so now I'm trying to see what its like when you take that element out of a relationship and if i will still feel the same need to exploit women

Fuck respecting bitches. Get your jjimmy waxed.

naw man I ain't trying to fuck. I'm just trying something differnt like see what it is like to not have sex, I tried this a lil while ago no sex, no beating off, no bjs etc to see how long it could work and it didn't work out so I'm trying it again

I dunno man I just feel like if I don't fuck girls maybe I will respect them more or something? I really don't know why i'm doing this but I figure I am in a new place and I'm gonna try and not do the same shit I was doing cause it has gone past the point of qaulifying myself, I know I can get pussy I've done that so now I'm trying to see what its like when you take that element out of a relationship and if i will still feel the same need to exploit women

Wow.

Tell her you feel like you're taking it too fast. Watch the door doesn't hit you on the way out though.

dude your preaching to the choir and shit but all I'm saying is maybe their is something differnt then just fucking skeezos? I know at the rate I am at if I don't change the way i am I could meet a totally awesome chick ( this has happened) who would be worth sticking with for a little while and just totally pump and dump it


i'm going soft

dude your preaching to the choir and shit but all I'm saying is maybe their is something differnt then just fucking skeezos? I know at the rate I am at if I don't change the way i am I could meet a totally awesome chick ( this has happened) who would be worth sticking with for a little while and just totally pump and dump it


i'm going soft

Reflect on this during your trip.

dude your preaching to the choir and shit but all I'm saying is maybe their is something differnt then just fucking skeezos? I know at the rate I am at if I don't change the way i am I could meet a totally awesome chick ( this has happened) who would be worth sticking with for a little while and just totally pump and dump it


i'm going soft

I ain't telling you pump and dump. Pump and recycle, son.

he's on drugs at the same time too

he's on drugs at the same time too



naw this has been a thought for like the last couple weeks, but yes yes I am

he's on drugs at the same time too



naw this has been a thought for like the last couple weeks, but yes yes I am

While seeing you post while tripping would be hilarious, you should go off and do your own thing, don't waste your first trip on a message board.

uh, just tell her that you are not having sex right now because of x, y and z?

Just don't have sex with her. Don't tell her why, don't mention it. Pretend that it hasn't even occurred to you. You can keep making out with her, so she'll know you're interested, but don't stick it in. She's going to worry that there's something wrong, because you've never escalated to sex, and this worry will probably keep her interested. Just try to stay outside of your house (or her house). Once you're in your house, it's hard to avoid sex.

Tell her that her pussy stinks too much

I have a hard time understanding the reasons behind wanting to do this.

Tell her you were sexually abused as a child and you find it hard to be intimate.

Then when you decide that you want to fuck her say that you have made real progress with your therapist and proceed to fuck.

I have a hard time understanding the reasons behind wanting to do this.

Me too

I have a hard time understanding the reasons behind wanting to do this.

Me too

Samadhi, you owe it to the virgins/guys that don't get laid on his forum to fuck this girl pls.